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How to live a wealthy life
Starting from today, daily actions - only 20+ years old
Hey Gang āØ
I come today to share BIG NEWS and share some wisdom I learned from my experiences in last month or two.
Some questions I tried to answer:
ā¢ How can young people cultivate wealthy lifestyle through intentional living and the pursuit of mastery?
ā¢ What does rejection reveal about societal measures of worth?
ā¢ How do you convey and identify true wealth?
ā¢ What ingredients I have now that can move me forward?
Letās get into thisā¦
Whatās big news?
Remember my dream job in sales, moving to a new place and the perfect lifestyle? It was all gone in less than 3 months.
I started searching for new job immediately and enjoyed some time off in between.
To describe this experience Iād use 1 word ā“
REJECTION
I canāt count all the times I was rejected. I thought itās easier when I have SOME experience rather than none.
And another thing. I was not prepared at all.
No backup plan. No savings. Nothing
Not so simple in 3 months of new life. But thereās no excuse.
I finally got a new work offer (Big news) after almost 2 months of search
What does rejection reveal about societal measures of worth?
Iāve been rejected for so many times when looking for my next job because I didnāt look like a typical candidate.
On purpose I chose to go with an unconventional path of development or as I like to call it a path to mastery
Under my belt there are wealthy experiences that cannot be measured with time variable
But you know what?
For not a single time when I was rejected there was a doubt in me
Special ones will notice the true wealth of experience you have if you can convey the story.
Itās harder to find these people but when you do you can:
āplay long term games with long term people"
How can one cultivate wealthy life?
Thereās difference between having wealth and LIVING WEALTHY
I donāt mean spending a lot of money here by any means.
Living a wealthy live is more important to any financial wealth. Because even if I start making 10k tomorrow will I be ready to sustain my growth?
People often break the bank with one hit wonder and then lose everything because of not being prepared.
BE first then HAVE.
Materialistic stuff belongs to the people who EARNED it.
Part of my identity having a wealthy life will mean to me that I can posses wealth and I am fully ready for it to belong to me.
Not me belonging to wealth
I really liked this quote from Naval:
āFit body, calm mind, a house full of love. These things cannot be bought - they must be EARNEDā
Thatās how I see a wealthy life
Do I want to have wealth?
Of course. Ask anyone on the street. Only people who are wealthy already will tell you not.
Why?
They are already live wealthy life.
Nothing changes. They still take care of their health (both: physical and mental), they still work a lot, they find fulfillment in providing for their families.
You can do this too to live wealthy. Money will follow.
Just transmute your attention, energy and purpose into performance.
Performance produces results.
Use your hands to create wealth. No one will hand it to you.
You will need:
ā¢ discipline
ā¢ patience
ā¢ self confidence
ā¢ consistency
ā¢ hard work
What ingredients I have now?
Itās easy to prepare a meal when you get all the groceries delivered to your house.
Itās art to prepare a meal from leftovers.
Same with life. We too often expect to have all the ingredients while all we have is leftovers. (Our bad habits, bad health, bad relationships, no skills etc.)
It will take time to fix them or ādo groceriesā
I call it a path to mastery
Everyday you have 3 ingredients
Concept from Jon Gordon (google him (I didnāt))
Our 3 ingredients we can use and control every day
1ļøā£ Your attitude
2ļøā£ The effort you give
3ļøā£ Actions you take
Any area of your life can benefit from it no matter how many ingredients you have.
All it takes is to intentionally take steps everyday using these 3 ingredients
What else can I do?
Maybe I am giving you too much but thereās also path to mastery.
Path to mastery is never ending. There are some ingredients you wonāt ever stop working on. It never should
BUT.
These 3 ingredients can be used strategically to improve in various things.
Be intentional in areas you need to improve
Keep taking steps every day towards improvement in those areas to complete the lack of some major ingredients of performance for example.
Keep track of your intentions daily and stay consistent in pursuing elimination of your ingredients lack
Goodbye words
I hope you enjoy me sharing some lessons. Please reply to this email if you have anything interesting to tell me. Even if it is āGangā
Love you. Until next timeā¦
Tymek